If you are an adult, becoming an adult, about to become an adult, or are worried about becoming an adult. take the time to watch this
actually, I think everyone, everywhere would benefit from this. please take the time. life is hard. SIGNAL BOOST.
This is important. Imagine if all of Tumblr can see it. I don’t want notes I want for you to each have a better day then the last. boost. watch.
Watch this. it might change your life. reblog. spread the word.
important things to remember. important things to do. stay positive.
The Pervocracy, breaking down both Cosmo and objectification with grace and panache. (via albinwonderland)
Make him feel like a piece of meat: “It’s a huge turn-on to hear a woman objectify me,” 30-year-old Christopher says. “It seems simple, but it’s so powerful.” Take his words to heart and don’t be afraid to tell your guy everything you like about his body or what he does that drives you crazy. He’ll be obsessed.
That’s not what objectification means. That’s not making him feel like a piece of meat. That’s just sexual compliments. Yeah, sure, it’s easy to say “I don’t know what those ladies are complaining about, you can objectify me anytime” if you think it means your girlfriend tells you you have sexy abs.
Objectification is focusing on a person’s usefulness to you with total disregard for their desires. In the context of compliments, it’s not saying “You turn me on.” It’s saying “You turn me on, and whether you want to turn me on is utterly irrelevant.”
Saying “nice ass” to a person who’s deliberately wiggling their ass at you is a compliment; saying “nice ass” to a person who’s just walking by is objectification. “I want to sleep with her” is expressing desire; “I’d hit it” is objectification. “You’re sexy” is nice to say on a date because it’s a compliment; “you’re sexy” is hideously undermining to say at a business meeting because it’s objectification.
chip is gonna help me write my paper tonight!
much knowledge. very papers. wow.
drawnfreckles asked: would it be weird to say that i miss your yoga selfies? i've been getting more into it myself lately and i was just thinking about how inspiring your inversion selfies always were, hahah
Ugh, i got into yoga when I was unemployed and had all the time in the world to do it (was going like 3-4 times a week), now I work two jobs and am trying to build up a portfolio and I wish I had as much time as I used to. I still try and work it into my daily routine, but the sessions I do at home don’t really match going to a class.
I’m rambling. I’ll take a couple selfies~ next time because I think it’s fun to record my progress anywho.
homgsh asked: Are you trying to move to Texas or just go on a trip there?
There’s a winged liner “terminology” reference list going around and I decided to give them correct names.
walking around the art museum and having so many nerdy moments and just said out loud “DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT YOURE LOOKING AT?! ITS AMAZING THIS IS AMAZING”.